I think I know why some things come out of the blue! Maybe because they are going through something and lack the emotional intelligence to stop and think about how they should speak to you. They choose to spew information out to you like they never were a terror to you a few months ago. Trauma should be forgotten with them.

They know that they have interrupted your peace. They will do whatever they please but you cannot move in the same way. You end up spiraling out of control and responding like them. You have an outer body experience and regret it instantly.

ISN’T THAT FRUSTRATING?!!!

Liveaboutdotcom listed 3 reasons why people hold onto anger….

Anger is a convenient tool used by some to prolong their own sense of victimization and, to punish others for wronging them.

https://www.liveabout.com/he-got-his-divorce-why-is-my-he-so-angry-1103290

That is an awful way for someone to live their life right??

We live in the day and age of no-fault divorce. Every state in the United States has now adopted no-fault divorce laws. One of the main arguments for this is that no-fault divorce laws cut down on conflict. A concept used by those who have evidently never been through a divorce…fault or no-fault.

https://www.liveabout.com/he-got-his-divorce-why-is-my-he-so-angry-1103290

It takes more work to prove abuse or cheating because some attorneys refuse to deal with the ongoing conflict, especially if children are involved.

They need the anger so they can identify themselves as victims….They feel that being the victim, having someone to be angry with for doing them wrong will garner empathy from others for their plight…..They feel they have been wronged even when evidence points to the contrary.

https://www.liveabout.com/he-got-his-divorce-why-is-my-he-so-angry-1103290

When will the madness stop? Does it ever stop?