If you start a relationship and your significant other tells you about all of the terrible things their ex has done to them, JUST RUNNNNNN! How can you have so much built up animosity for someone you do not know? How can you come into a space that you know someone else has lived in a claim a territory that you did not help build? Why believe stories someone else tells you without doing your research? The internet is public domain and court documents are public (most of the time). DO NOT BE CHILDISH LIKE THIS, DO NOT SPEAK TO SOMEONE WITH SO MUCH DISRESPECT WHEN LACKING KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THEM. DO NOT DO YOUR RESEARCH! DO NOT PASS GO! YOU WILL BE EMBARRASSED SOONER OR LATER WHEN THE TRUTH COMES OUT.